Skip to main content

Life in Genoa...

I can't believe it's been almost a week since I left Portland...time seems to be running in a very surreal way! It's been a more challenging adjustment than I expected because I was knocked over with the cold I thought I had left behind before boarding the plane (and my body STILL hasn't figured out what time I am supposed to be sleeping)! I shouldn't be surprised about the cold catching up with me again after wandering around in a sweatshirt in below-freezing weather in Venice after no sleep for 30 hours, but I was surprised when it found me again halfway around the world!! So between the cold and trying to recover from my long travel day and the time zone adjustment, it's been a challenge! 

The first day after my arrival, Stefano (the dad) stayed home from work to show me the ropes and what they need me to do to help with their girls. Valentina (the 14 year old) comes home from  school around 1:00, and Beatrice (the 11 year old whose name I can't seem to pronounce correctly no matter how hard I try.... something like Bay-ah-TREE-cha) comes home at 2:00. We have lunch at 2 o'clock on the dot so they can stay on schedule for their afternoon of studying (45 minutes of which is English conversation between myself and Valentina, and 50 minutes of helping Beatrice with her KET preparation...something similar to an ESL test)! Fortunately, all they really expect is a bowl of pasta and some fruit or something like that, so I'm not expected to cook a big meal...whew!!


Probably one of the most challenging aspects of adjusting has been finding my balance between time alone for my introverted self with how much time to spend with the family (and how much time they want me in their space). The first day was the most stressful because all I wanted to do was sleep and recover from my long day of travel, but I could see that Stefano really wanted to tell me all about the sights to see and how to get places...so I pushed on through until bedtime! By the second day, I was relieved to find myself all alone with the cat snuggled next to me, so I got to sleep in, wake up slowly, drink my coffee and ponder life before the girls came home for lunch!

It has been an adjustment as I figure out personalities, family dynamics, and expectations, etc. But with all of the challenges physically this week being sick (and some emotional challenges as I adapt), I find myself looking at the gorgeous sunsets over the water and listening to the bells from the church down the road calling the neighborhood to Mass and wonder, "how could I NOT be ecstatic that I have come here to explore new places and meet new people?!?!"

The lights show how close we are to the
harbor with ferries going everywhere!!
And so I breathe in the beauty and "different-ness" of the place and remind myself to be curious.... about the people, the culture, the history and architecture, and all that I can learn, see and do while I'm here!!

When I am able to make that shift in my perspective, it seems, I am often rewarded with heart-opening experiences like yesterday when I got to go on an outing with the family (which was a lot of fun and helped me to connect more since the parents are usually at work during the week and tired when they come home). We went to look at an apartment they are thinking about renting this summer for their holiday (in a beach town called Cavi di Lavagna about 45 minutes from here). I had to catch my breath a few times as we navigated QUICKLY!!! through the narrow streets of Genoa with barely an inch to spare between cars!! I thought I was going to die, but fortunately Stefano is a wonderful driver and avoided many breath-holding accidents (as I did my best not to gasp and show my fear....convinced we were going to hit something)!! 


After we saw the apartments, we went a bit further down the coast to Sestre Levante, had a wonderful lunch, and wandered around Bahia del Silenzio (Bay of Silence) which was gorgeous, but freezing cold with the wind whipping off the water!! You can see from the picture of the family, they were all bundled up with hats and winter coats while I was freezing to death with my light sweatshirt and hoodie that barely kept me warm!! But, that was my choice....I didn't want to bring my winter coat with me to drag around for 5 months, so I decided to leave it at home. Now I can only hope this "unusual cold front" will subside soon! They even had snow in Sicily which is unheard of (and, fortunately, hasn't ruined the yummy oranges I keep devouring from there)!! 

On the way there, we took the "fast road" (highway), but on the way back we took the road that meanders around the mountain with gorgeous views of the sea!! (Valentina hates it when I call it the ocean, so I'm trying to remember to call it the sea!!) We travelled through beautiful towns like Rapallo ("the fancy place for rich people"), Camogli ("beautiful, traditional fishing village with easy access on the train" according to Stefano), and Recco (known for its "focaccia col formaggio" in which "rich, gooey cheese is encased in millimeter-thin sheets of dough" according to one travel website)!! I think I might need to take that €5, 30 minute train ride back to these places just to get a better view and try some of that focaccia for sure! 

I guess I better stop for now....so many words to say and thoughts to share, but don't want to bore you all with too many details of my experience!! Maybe these pictures can fill in the rest of the story....until next time!! 

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

All My Plans Came Tumbling Down The Stairs in Pisa - but Fortunately Not in the Leaning Tower!! 🤪😂🤪

Sorry, this post turned out quite long so feel free to skip through and peruse the details!! A few of you have asked for more information, so I thought I’d fill in some details for those inquiring minds who want to know!! Also, I just wanted to let you know my shoulder surgery will be THIS Thursday at 7:30 am (and all prayers and good intentions for healthy outcomes are appreciated)!!  🙏💖🙏 So here we go…. Our (unexpectedly last) day of sightseeing started with an early morning, crowd-free visit to the Leaning Tower of Pisa, and it was the most perfect moment of the day!! Little did I know when we left our sweet AirBnb in Viareggio that morning, it would be the last time I would see it (expecting to return that evening)!! It was still a bit cloudy when we first got to Pisa, but we got some great pictures then settled into the cafe right across the street! It was the perfect place to people-watch as many tourists tried to get the same picture (holding up the tower)!! It’s so ...
Post a Comment
Read more

Washed-Out Roads, Dark Driveways and Scorpions!!

So in my last post I mentioned the scorpions in Guatemala, and I’ve had a couple requests to hear more about that experience!  Those of you who received my emails while I was there a few years ago might remember this, but I thought I’d share it again since it was a “pivotal point” in learning to travel by myself – and taught me that I can survive ANYTHING I encounter in my travels – because I survived THIS!! Well, it was quite an interesting ride from Antigua to Lake Atitlan. What in the past would have taken about 3.5 hours took us almost 5 because of the mudslides and damage done to the roads!! They actually have a highway that runs between Antigua and Lake Atitlan that normally has four lanes, but we had to detour into two-lane roads along the way because the mud, tree trunks, etc. covered miles and miles of highway (due to all the rain they had been getting that fall).  At one point, we drove past a part of the road that had LITERALLY fallen away!! The story was that a...
Post a Comment
Read more

Mystical, Magical Mostar Bosnia!!

As I'm sitting on our terrace looking out on an Islamic minaret, a Catholic steeple and a bombed-out building next door, the history of this beautiful place is sobering and almost overwhelming. We are now in Mostar, Bosnia, and I have been excited to visit this place from the moment I saw the pictures; but I have fallen in love with the kind, gentle people who have suffered greatly and have chosen kindness and forgiveness instead of anger and more war. We saw a interesting sign in the shadow of the famous Stari Most bridge that encompasses the energy I feel here. It said "Don't Forget But DO Forgive FOREVER!!" Even after all the generations of being conquered (by the Ottomans) and bombed (by the Serbians during the Balkan war), each person seems to have the same sentiment....they just want to be left alone in peace! Prior to the Balkan War, Mostar was pretty evenly divided between Bosnians, Croats, and Serbs (combined with "other ethnic groups") - liv...
Post a Comment
Read more